Vol 3, Issue 11

Person to Person
Conversations.  At the core of virtually every connection we make is a conversation.  It is an opening to learn, to discover the unimagined, to "Develop and Deepen Relationships in Our Daily Lives".

In response to conversations with people like you we are reminded of the value of simple, informal opportunities to connect and learn more about ourselves and each other.  We also hear that many of you know people who are interested in learning more about The Haven and some of the concepts and experiences offered in courses here.

With all of this in mind, we are beginning a series of evening information sessions with presentations by various members of our faculty.  These brief talks will address a broad range of topics and issues, and include time for informal questions and conversations.  These gatherings are free, and open to all.  The first session is December 2nd at the Dunbar Community Center in Vancouver with Cathy and Ernie McNally presenting a look at the impact of communication in relationships.  For details and times go to www.haven.ca/institute/awayevents.html

We respect that each person makes choices in their own way and time.  You have likely heard this at The Haven often, and you may be wondering why we are bringing it up now.  We are keenly aware that many organizations use "information sessions" as a way to make quick sales, and that people attending often feel pressured.  This is the antithesis of our intention for these sessions.  Our intention is simply to share information and engage with each other.  As with all thoughtful decisions, information and conversations play a key role in making our choices.  This belief is at the core of everything we do to share awareness of The Haven, and it is also at the core of our information sessions.  We look forward to seeing old friends and making new acquaintances, and learning along the way.  See you there!

New Works From An Old Friend
Many of you may know Wayne Allen from his frequent participation in courses here and his work as founder of the Phoenix Centre in Ontario.  His just-published book "This Endless Moment" and CD "Introduction to Bodywork and Breathwork" are well worth a read and listen.  Wayne's book offers insights into enhancing life and relationships and the CD is abundant with practical, easy-to-understand ways to "breathe new life" into our bodies.

"I really wanted to write this book," says Wayne, "I've spent decades applying the lessons contained in this book in my own life. A couple of years ago, several clients in a row asked for a book that would be a reminder of what I'd said to them in session.  I thought it sounded like a great idea. That great idea led to two years of thought, writing and editing!"

Wayne has received high praise for his work, notably from our founders, Ben Wong and Jock McKeen:
"Wayne Allen has taken important complex concepts and has expressed them in an accessible and practical way. His very personal approach is remarkable.  This is an excellent readable book.  We're impressed!"

For more information about Wayne, The Phoenix Centre, and his new book and CD visit http://www.phoenixcentre.com/press/endless_moment/index.htm

The Gift
It seems that for many of us the end of a year is time to pause, take stock, and check the lay of our personal land.  We think you will find this reflected in the nature and quality of our year-ending courses; fun, on-going challenges, new possibilities, connection within and with others, time to stand forward, time to take care...the most important gift may be the one you give yourself...

• Anger, Boundaries & Safety (November 18-21) with Joann Peterson
• Transforming Fear & Anxiety (November19-22) with David Raithby, Sandey McCartney
• Quantum Laugh(November 19-22) with Carole Ames
• Awakening Your Erotic Body (November 26-28) with Elfi Dillon-Shaw
• Couples in Conflict(December 3-5) with Judy Sellner
• Self Compassion(December 3-6) with Wayne Dodge and Gwen Ewen
• Sensational Contact (December 3-6) with Gillian Enright, Jane Olynyk
• Come Alive (December 6-11)
• Stirring the Cauldron (December 10-12) with Elfi Dillon-Shaw
• Silence, Sitting Meditation, and the Birth of Being (December 10-12) with Jim Sacamano
• Reflections(December 28-January 1) with Jock McKeen, Ben Wong
• Come Alive(January 1-6)
• Come Alive II(January 1-6) with David Raithby, Linda Nicholls
• Faith: Living With Courage (January 3-6) with Carole Ames, Joanne Cimbalo, Maria Gomori
• Transitions (January 6-12) with Maria Gomori, Linda Nicholls
• Beyond New Horizons (January 12-16) with Jock McKeen, Ben Wong
• Career Revisioning (January 13-16) with Marlyn Farrell
• Phase I: Self Awareness (February3-28)
• Come Alive(February 8-13)

Start Spreading The News! Last January Jonathan Diderich came to a Come Alive, and The Haven, for the first time.  There began a relationship that has grown and evolved over the past several months, and October 1st Jonathan joined us to work with marketing and business development.  From our first connection we were struck with his integrity, passion, and seemingly boundless enthusiasm (his picture may give you some indication of what we speak!). Marketing can be a challenging area at the best of times.  We find ourselves learning more every day as we do our best to increase people's awareness of something as personal and unique as The Haven; be respectful of you and others, and faithful to our core values and intention.  We are thrilled to have someone with Jonathan's character and creativity join us in this challenge!

Just Quickly...
If you are looking for a conversation starter, ask someone what their best and worst New Years celebrations were!  From a quiet night alone, to the party from hell, to moments of great promise, our memories of bringing in new years-past seem to live on.  We think this is one of the reasons Reflections has become such a warm tradition...Ben and Jock offering some of their current thoughts and musings...creative afternoons leading to the legendary New Year's Eve follies...the opportunity to connect with others around a circle, or around a meal...quiet moments with a friend, a book, or wandering the gardens, trails, and beachfront...unwinding appreciative muscles with a massage and a soak in the hot-tub...and greeting 2005 in the company of people we have come to know personally, over several years or the past few days.  If you have been here for Reflections we believe you have had your own version of what we are describing, and if you have never been, we invite you to come and discover for yourself.

There is always something up at The Haven, to stay informed visit our website www.haven.ca, email us at info@haven.ca or call us at 250 247-9211 and toll-free 1-877 247-9238. Take care, enjoy yourself, and each other, and be in touch soon.
 

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